For those who are familiar with it, the following kinds of favors cannot help
For those who are familiar with it, the following types of services cannot be used to help them, and they can do what they can. When I read the news, I saw something like this: Brothers Liu Menghua and Liu Konghua in Xiang County, Zhengzhou opened a multi-grain steamed bun shop. During the Spring Festival, they were very moved to see the sanitation workers getting up early every day and working overtime to sweep snow and ice. They decided to allow every sanitation worker to receive love buns in the store, and to eat steaming meals with their work permits, and to do their best for these workers who are fighting on the front line of maintaining the urban environment. The two brothers only wanted to do something good for the sanitation workers, and they were willing to earn less, but some discordant voices gradually made them sad. 'Love steamed buns are the welfare of the company. Once we leave, you will not give us love steamed buns. It is too unkind.' 'I don't want love steamed buns, you can convert the money to me.'...this love After persisting for 44 days and distributing more than 16,000 buns to sanitation workers, it can no longer continue. The two brothers of the Liu family were very wronged. Not only did they not get praise for their love, they were attacked by gossip. The jewelry factory specializes in making jewelry for more than 13 years and has a wealth of work experience and technology. You are welcome to visit and inspect. There is a saying that goes well: 'Snakes are not warm, and wolves are unfamiliar.' Helping from the heart is fashionable and eloquent. It is chilling. In daily life, people who are familiar with these kinds of things are also busy. Don't help. 1. Don't help if you are overdrawing and trusting. I saw this video on Douyin: A girl borrowed 300 yuan from her roommate and promised to return it in a week, but the girl did not fulfill her promise. Out of affection, the roommate did not always urge the girl to pay back the money. Two weeks later, the roommate asked when to pay the money, and the girl said: 'I will definitely pay you back next week.' In the third week, the roommate asked again, and the girl said: 'Don't worry, don't worry, you will be paid back if you have it.' After a month, the roommate said embarrassingly that she was also anxious to spend the money, but the girl was very impatient and said: 'Oh, not just three hundred yuan, are you so urging? Are you a ghost?' 'It's been a long time. It's...' 'Well, pay you back, I shouldn't have borrowed money from you in the first place!' Borrowing money kindly, I was blamed. There is no shortage of such examples in life. As stated in the text in the video, borrowing money is a letter, not arousing is sentimental, and repaying money is sincere. A true friend will never let trust be a weapon to test the relationship between two people, but will work together to keep a good relationship for a long time. 2. Don't help if you violate the principle. A piece of news last year caused a heated discussion among everyone. A female college student in Chengdu, because she forgot to bring her meal card, transferred WeChat account to her aunt in the cafeteria and asked her to swipe the card for help. According to the regulations of the school's related system, the aunt should not collect cash. Out of kindness, she helped the girl. However, afterwards, the girl reported the canteen aunt. Let’s not comment on whether the girl’s report of the aunt in the cafeteria was right, but this incident gave us a wake-up call: if you violate the principle, don’t help. I have read a story about Dong Mingzhu: In the 1990s, Gree air conditioners were in short supply and competition among dealers was fierce. A dealer found Dong Mingzhu’s brother to help get 30 million Gree air conditioners. I originally thought that there was a sister who was a boss, and she took this order easily, but he didn't expect that Dong Mingzhu's answer was only two words: no. Because of this incident, the two brothers and sisters have always stayed away from each other. Years later, Dong Mingzhu still had no regrets when he mentioned this matter. She said: In Gree for so many years, I almost sacrificed all my family affection. However, if I look at it from the perspective of a company, I feel that my sacrifice is worth it. The jewelry factory warmly reminds: 'If you violate the principle you set, even if it is only once, you will violate more principles in the future.' Violating the principle seems to help others, but it makes one lose the fundamental and bottom line of life.
